Anyway, I just mean to say this isn't Alicia's first rodeo, just as it isn't Cory's. It doesn't sound like the actions of a mature adult (on either end). It's just so odd to me that she uprooted her life for a guy that never told her he loved her, got involved with his daughter, and then break up all in just two months. I'm not saying Cory holds no responsibility in hurting the women he dates, but Alicia holds responsibility in jumping so quickly for a guy she barely knew, who she probably KNEW had a bad reputation with women. Cory made no huge leaps for the relationship with Alicia-she did all the work, and she somehow thinks because SHE invested so much that the relationship was the same on his end. It gets very old and repetitious when women who choose these kind of men over and over play the victim instead of learning the red flags and staying away. The show centres around the dating life of Jennifer (Michelle Paradise), a lesbian documentary filmmaker with a vivid fantasy life and a floundering career.
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She moved for him, she helped him emotionally over having a new daughter, she fell in love and told him, she followed him to a TV show to get him back-what has he done for her or the relationship? Words are cheap actions speak louder. Exes & Ohs is an American and Canadian cable TV series which launched on Logo on Octoas well as Showcase in Canada. She's the one who made all the grand gestures and sacrifices for the relationship, not him. This can't be all on Cory because Alicia holds responsibility in dating the same guy over and over again. From her mouth she says she always ends up as the side chick. The problem is Alicia is always caught in a situation where she dates these kind of men.
I completely get that, and I don't doubt he is.
I personally have never heard of Cory before this show, but I understand you are saying he's a player and/or heartbreaker for women. She made all the moves in the relationship. What did he do to prove that he loved her or saw a future with her? That's why Alicia shouldn't be surprised, and that's why I'm not surprised. She moved for him, she helped him emotionally over having a new daughter, she loved him, and she told him she loved him. So for me, I don't see that he led her on to believe he was in love because he didn't do anything near to what she did for the relationship. What big gesture or sacrifice did he make for the relationship (that we know of)? All I see is that she did, not him. I get why she's hurt, but you don't jump for a man who isn't jumping for you. I do think he should have been smart enough to tell her not to move over to him, but I also think she should have been smart enough to not uproot her life for a man she barely knew or who hadn't declared his love and commitment to her yet.
He was sweet to her and accepted her advance of moving over to him, and she thought that was enough to show he loved her or saw a future with her. I'm not disputing he could have broken up with her over the show, but I'm not buying he ever told her he loved her (unless Alicia starts to claim he did and Cory slips up). Someone can act very sweet and loving to you, but it doesn't mean they love you. The "love" word is what sent him running the other way. Well, according to Cory, two weeks before filming Alicia said she loved him, and he said he couldn't say it back, so that's why he broke up with her.
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